Memory Lane is Closed !!
I wanted to write on this topic and then i came across this and it was so perfect that didnt needed to be touched upon ... like few things :-)
"Don't you just take the past and put it in a room in a basement and lock the door and never go in there? That's what I do, And then you meet someone special and all you want to do is to toss them the key and say; open up, step inside, but you can't, because it's dark, There's demons and if anybody saw how ugly it is. I keep wanted to do that, fling the door open just let light in and clean everything out."
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Mr Tom Ripley
The Talented Mr. Ripley